Surah Baqarah regarding Bani Israel early verses

One of the biggest problems with Bani Israel was their unnecessary questioning. 

When they were asked to slaughter a cow, the best thing was to go ahead and slaughter a cow. But they dragged the matter unnecessarily. 

Along with other issues that this problem created, a pertinent one was the humiliation of Musa A.S. Every time they asked an absurd question, Musa felt humiliated to take that question to Allah (swt).

Unfortunately, this problem is extremely 🌺common in our society. People ask about matters which don't concern them. Why aren't you married? Why are you divorced? Why don't you have children? How did the miscarriage happen? How? Why? What? Where? Who? When? 

These questions are problematic on two levels

1 - This doesn't make your life any better. No benefit in this dunia and akhirah

2- The person being questioned may feel upset or even humiliated with these kinds of questions. 

One of the hadith says that the beauty of a person's Islam is to leave what doesn't concern them. So please leave what doesn't concern you.

All you do by asking such questions is that you lose your respect in the sight of the person you are questioning/humiliating.

𝙎𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝘽𝙚𝙡𝙖 𝙆𝙝𝙖𝙣